When I was in high school, my best friend and I went to her dad's place down south for the weekend. Her father, a devout catholic (my friend....not so much), told me very sternly that I was NOT to participate in communion because I wasn't catholic. I was pretty hurt by it, insulted really, and no real explanation made it worse. Now, I absolutely understand why I wasn't allowed, but I didn't then. That is the problem with looking at a religion based on the person who presents it to you. A lot is lost in translation, and I bet most religious people have no idea how to explain their doctrines in a positive and helpful way. It would have been way more christian of him to have a quick and helpful chat with me about "why" I wasn't allowed. Unfortunately, just because we believe that something is true and just, doesn't mean that everyone else does...and if you want them to respect you and your belief, being rude doesn't help.
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| Me, my hubby and my baby this summer in Myrtle Beach SC |
My real reason for this post was to say that I respect that I am not supposed to participate in the eucharistic portion of the mass. I have been told, wisely, that I should focus and pray during that time. My prayers should be centered on making myself ready to receive the true body of Christ. I know I am not ready for that yet. I have much to do with my spiritual self before I can REALLY say that I am fully involved. Christ's sacrifice is a lot to digest (pun intended) and I need to make sure I respect that.
